by Cecilia Hilkey | parenting
From one of our readers: I like the concept of making agreements with our children, but I need help to make an agreement with my kids for: Keeping their hands to themselves (not poking, tickling etc.) when the other says “no.” Listening when a person asks...read more
by Cecilia Hilkey | parenting
“Don’t do anything that isn’t play.” – Marshall Rosenberg When I first read this years ago I thought, “What do you mean, Marshall? I’ve got a ton to do. I’ve got a job to go to, dishes to wash, laundry to fold, meals to cook, a house needs cleaning, and a sick...read more
by Cecilia Hilkey | parenting
In our family (and in our preschool classroom) instead of rules we have agreements. An agreement is something that everyone in the family agrees to do, created collaboratively, written down and signed. At home, we keep our agreements in a 3 ring binder in the living...read more
by Cecilia Hilkey | parenting
So many times I enter into a conversation with my kids and I have an unspoken, secret agenda. But I do my best parenting when I’m not attached to getting my way, when I’m curious and ask lots of open ended questions. It’s not a coincidence that when I give up how I...read more
